In our ongoing series examining the various myths and misconceptions surrounding women, the second lie we address is the age-old portrayal of women as damsels in distress. Picture the clichéd scene: a maiden, trapped in a tower, her flowing locks acting as the only bridge to the outside world, waiting for a prince to climb up and save her. This narrative, unfortunately, extends beyond fairy tales, permeating societal attitudes and expectations about women.

The irony of such portrayals is that women are often depicted as possessing an innate strength and power that intimidates and threatens the societal structures or antagonists in these tales. From the enchanting allure of sirens to the transformative abilities of witches, women in folklore have long been seen as potent figures. Yet, paradoxically, they are often caged, hidden, or reduced to subservient roles.

But why? Is it because of a fear of the depth of a woman's strength? The authenticity of her power? The narratives frequently depict this inherent power as something to be feared, hence the entrapment or victimisation. When a woman's aura or essence is intimidating or perceived as a threat, the instinctive reaction, it seems, is to confine and control. But let's debunk this: the idea that women are perpetually waiting, helpless, for someone to rescue them is not just outdated, it's erroneous. It might make for a great romantic tale, but reality paints a different picture.

Women, every day, all over the world, rescue themselves.

From escaping abusive relationships to shielding their families in wartime, from climbing corporate ladders to breaking the barriers in sports, the

examples are endless. Women do not await salvation; they create it. Moreover, to truly thrive, women don't seek saviours; they seek partners. Partnerships built on mutual respect, equality, and shared goals are the cornerstones of modern relationships. Such relationships recognise and

celebrate each individual's strength, with neither party playing the perpetual victim or rescuer.

Women - recognise your power. It’s okay if that power feels threatening to some. Your strength, your essence, is not something to be locked away. No tower, no cage, and certainly no external entity should be allowed to confine or define you. And most crucially, understand that your value doesn't increase by being 'rescued.' To anyone currently navigating a challenging situation, I have personally lived through something similar - you have the capacity, the fortitude, and the power to rescue yourself. You are not a passive character in your story, waiting for external intervention.

You are the hero and the rescuer you've been waiting for.